How to work it out?

Its my life and and I dont want to have regrets about it. Lets go to heaven because we help out…. its not about the heaven but helping others, right? A friend of mine recently asked me what I want in live.

Well there are two answers I came spontaneiusly up with:

1. Helping others

2. Being loved and spread love

I was a lttile surprised by my own answers since I dont live to these pricipals on an every day level, I guess one just needs to find the right mix and increase the dosis on a day to day basis, little by little.